| Re: Crying [message #410360 is a reply to message #409876] |
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| NukeIt15 wrote on Mon, 09 November 2009 15:33 |
The longer you hold it in, the worse it is when you let it out. If you hold it in for too long, you might just find that you no longer can let it out without help. I've been there, and it sucks a whole lot worse than someone seeing you get teary when you realize that you can't even express natural, rational grief without someone or something to knock down the walls for you. It took counseling and several very good friends to start putting things right, and I'm still a long ways away from where I think I need to be.
In other words, yes- you can lose the ability to express strong emotions. Emotional self-control is a useful ability, and it's come in handy for me many times, but if taken too far it will ruin you. Great for avoiding hurtful confrontations and preventing you from losing your temper... not so great when you have something that needs to come out but can't because you've forgotten how to let it. And yes, there are specific examples behind that- just nothing I'd want to share here.
Far better to be seen as "weak" than to try to be too strong.
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every time you post it's like a bombshell of relevant helpful information regardless of what's being discussed
it's pretty cool
good job kind sir 
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| Re: Crying [message #410497 is a reply to message #410304] |
Fri, 13 November 2009 08:08 |
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| Sladewill wrote on Wed, 11 November 2009 15:12 |
bro you still express your emotions into putting all efforts into coding and outdoing yourself day-in day-out, so theoritcally you do.
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I haven't touched a compiler in almost 3-6 months. :S
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| Re: Crying [message #414154 is a reply to message #410497] |
Tue, 15 December 2009 22:40 |
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| Dave Anderson wrote on Fri, 13 November 2009 09:08 |
| Sladewill wrote on Wed, 11 November 2009 15:12 |
bro you still express your emotions into putting all efforts into coding and outdoing yourself day-in day-out, so theoritcally you do.
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I haven't touched a compiler in almost 3-6 months. :S
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WHY U DO THIS
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| Re: Crying [message #414881 is a reply to message #409837] |
Mon, 21 December 2009 15:42 |
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the only times i cried was when tupac died and when the KFC 2 blocks from my house closed down. now if i want fried chicken i have to go to a popeyes that's 5 blocks away.
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| Re: Crying [message #414934 is a reply to message #409837] |
Tue, 22 December 2009 07:48 |
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I don't cry or get angry about emotional issues. I'm pretty good!
Then again, I'm generally a really cheerful/happy person and there's only been a few things that bother me.
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| Re: Crying [message #415101 is a reply to message #414882] |
Wed, 23 December 2009 12:16 |
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| Chew wrote on Mon, 21 December 2009 16:44 |
| Rocko wrote on Mon, 21 December 2009 16:42 |
the only times i cried was when tupac died and when the KFC 2 blocks from my house closed down. now if i want fried chicken i have to go to a popeyes that's 5 blocks away.
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This stupid fuck really should be banned for racism, I know it is not blantant, but it is the same theme for everyone one of his post... and none of them are ever constructive input to the thread.
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lol stop being such a faggot...
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| Re: Crying [message #415104 is a reply to message #415102] |
Wed, 23 December 2009 12:20 |
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| Chew wrote on Wed, 23 December 2009 13:18 |
| SSADMVR wrote on Wed, 23 December 2009 13:16 |
| Chew wrote on Mon, 21 December 2009 16:44 |
| Rocko wrote on Mon, 21 December 2009 16:42 |
the only times i cried was when tupac died and when the KFC 2 blocks from my house closed down. now if i want fried chicken i have to go to a popeyes that's 5 blocks away.
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This stupid fuck really should be banned for racism, I know it is not blantant, but it is the same theme for everyone one of his post... and none of them are ever constructive input to the thread.
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lol stop being such a faggot...
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Who me or him? As I am failing to see any reference of a sexual nature in the quoted text.
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| Re: Crying [message #415192 is a reply to message #409837] |
Wed, 23 December 2009 18:51 |
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I think people just get desensitized after a while, where all your emotions eventually blend to a certain level and simply adjust rather than completely shift. Crying is usually like an outburst of a sad emotion, just as laughing is an outburst of a happy emotion, though I think I could comfortably say I haven't cried in years, but nor have I laughed really really hard in a while.
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| Re: Crying [message #415320 is a reply to message #415319] |
Thu, 24 December 2009 09:13 |
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| CarrierII wrote on Thu, 24 December 2009 16:02 |
Rocko gets banned every now and again, it's a bit sad really, because all he does is come back and try to turn his race into an issue, when he's the only one who seems to notice or care.
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It's not that he cares... who know for sure he is even black? It's not like you can look at a forum and pick out who is black, brown, white, albino, red, yellow, or w/e else color someone could be.
He does it to be a trolling idiot, and it is quite annoying. It is not even original or funny. The whole black people and KFC bit played out a long time ago.
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