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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433830 is a reply to message #433824] |
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JohnDoe
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| nopol10 wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 08:31 |
This forum probably isn't the best place to vent your frustration but if I were you and knew the things you knew about your sister, I would probably have done the same.
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you live in a city that throws people in prison for spitting on the street
im surprised these prudes even accept sex b4 marriage...all this talk about proper relationship and proper cherrypopping procedures is awfully inconsistent with proper traditional values
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433847 is a reply to message #433846] |
Fri, 30 July 2010 12:54 |
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| Goztow wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 05:56 |
| JohnDoe wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 13:54 |
what's up with goztow being all about a family meeting on how the glorious cherry popping shalt be arranged??  weirdo
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As answer to Dover and you: I'm rather traditional in the fact I think one should get to know the person a bit before having sex with them. Getting to know the other person does include having at least informed the closest family that I have a relationship with someone called <xxx>.
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| snpr1101 wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 06:23 |
| Dover wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 06:39 |
Any objection based soley on the age? No, I don't. If your sister is that kind of person, then I feel sorry for your situation but her mistakes are her own to make. I wouldn't be so quick to write off the entire relationship just because she's 16 and he's 20.
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Sadly, I am discovering that she is that type of person. It's not a proper relationship. They aren't dating.
| Dover wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 06:39 |
Your sister is automatically a slut because she's dating an older man? How absurd. Over half of the women I've dated have been older than me. Are you calling me a slut? If not, why the double standard? >:[
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You big manwhore. No, she's automatically a slut because of the reasons provided as to why she's actually doing this and the amount of guys she has had sex with.
| Dover wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 06:39 |
She's not magically mature enough to have sex on her 18th birthday. If she was 17 and 11 1/2 months, would you have done it? Is your outrage based legally on morally?
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The reality is she's 16. Of course 18 is not some magical number where upon reaching that age you're spontaneously mature enough to have sex. I'm just outraged because it's illegal and they both know it; and he should know better.
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To both of you, how have snpr's actions helped anything? He's outraged, fine, and I guess he has the right to, and even though I wouldn't be in his situation, I can understand his reasons for being upset. But in what way is what he did "the right thing to do"?
| Ziggy Sobotka wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 12:16 |
| DRNG wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 13:16 |
It's an inevitability, really. If your sister is going to fuck around with older guys then she's going to fuck around with older guys. Deal with it, she sucks but there isn't a damned thing you can do about it. 
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433859 is a reply to message #433779] |
Fri, 30 July 2010 17:50 |
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GEORGE ZIMMER
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Stupid way to react. You shoulda been way cooler about it, gotten to know the guy, but keep a watchful eye on him. Be like "Don't fuck with my sister.". Y'know, act like a brother, and not a jackass.
Now she's going to run off to him and fuck him at his place, GJ
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433868 is a reply to message #433779] |
Fri, 30 July 2010 20:55 |
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| snpr1101 wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 02:24 |
So I came home from work today to find a car parked outside my house. My friend looks at me and says "Want me to wait outside"? I say yea and I walk inside and find some 20ish year old looking dude lying on my sisters bed inside. My sister is 16 years old. 16 for fuck sake. Nobody is home; nobody except my sister knows this dude let alone knows he's even there.
I walk past the room and into the bathroom thinking about what I should do next. My sister says "Oh have you met [name]"?
I say "Uh, No I haven't". He didn't even look me in the eye or get up to shake my hand. My sister then just closed the door. So I instantly walked outside, got my mate to come inside with me and kick this fucker out of my house.
My mate knocks on the door, opens it and my sister just put a shirt on as we opened it. He says "You, out, now. Get the fuck out. Move etc" The guy kept standing there in shock/guilt. We pushed the guy out of the house and told him to fuck off.
My sister claimed they are best friends and they didn't do anything. She was just getting "changed" and he was fucking staring at her while doing so. They were just "watching a movie" when there is a big flat screen TV in the lounge that is 3 times the size of hers and definition. I said I didn't give a fuck. You can't have some 20 year old dude lying on your bed in your room with no one home and no one knowing who the fuck he is. I explained that she still lives under parents control and I bet either one of them would not let this guy be there.
She argued with me and my mate for 30 minutes about it. She cried throughout the whole thing and cried some more when I went for a shower after it.
So, do you think it was wrong of us to kick this guy out? My sister argues about the way in which we did it; she can't argue with the reasons WHY. Apparently she hates me and my friend and no doubt everyone of her friends and mine will learn of this.
I'm 18 and would feel uncomfortable hanging out in a 16 year old (minor = hello legal case) girls room. It just isn't right - especially when nobody is home. How can I be expected to believe that they were doing nothing. That's bullshit.
So, what are your thoughts of a day in the life of snpr1101?
What would you do if you were in this situation
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good work man, you sure taught her she needs to do her fuckin' outside of the home
hey if you were 16 and some hot 20 year old college chick knocked on your door and wanted your cock, what would you do
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433884 is a reply to message #433858] |
Sat, 31 July 2010 01:48 |
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| snpr1101 wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 18:54 |
| Ziggy Sobotka wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 14:16 |
| DRNG wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 13:16 |
It's an inevitability, really. If your sister is going to fuck around with older guys then she's going to fuck around with older guys. Deal with it, she sucks but there isn't a damned thing you can do about it.
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Hey! You're clever. No really, you're pretty cool.
It is my futile wish that respect was something owed in topics such as this where I need to discuss something of importance; and 99% of people here have given me that. Yea it's the internet; and yea it's not your problem. But it matters to me. There are a lot of intelligent members here who can and have offered me good advice. Then there are people like you who have the potential to help; yet say stupid shit like that; and for what? Does it make you feel better? Maybe being an anonymous ignorant prick helps fill up your quota for daily entertainment.
I'm all for your jokes, there just a time and a topic mate.
I've read everyone's comments and I'd like to say - thanks for your advice. I wouldn't of made this topic if I did not have a lack of intelligent people to talk to this about IRL. This is just not something I want to discuss with %99 of friends; and I guess the anonymity helps as well.
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What advice is there to give? How can I, a random person on the renegadeforum you know nothing about, change your attitude towards a fairly fundamental issue? I sure as hell won't change your mind.
So, who exactly are you thanking for their advice? The people who actually criticized what you did, or the fundies giving you a pat on the back, thinking you were morally upright when you were really just patronising your sister?
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433885 is a reply to message #433884] |
Sat, 31 July 2010 02:10 |
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snpr1101
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| Ziggy Sobotka wrote on Sat, 31 July 2010 04:48 |
| snpr1101 wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 18:54 |
| Ziggy Sobotka wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 14:16 |
| DRNG wrote on Fri, 30 July 2010 13:16 |
It's an inevitability, really. If your sister is going to fuck around with older guys then she's going to fuck around with older guys. Deal with it, she sucks but there isn't a damned thing you can do about it.
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fixed.
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Hey! You're clever. No really, you're pretty cool.
It is my futile wish that respect was something owed in topics such as this where I need to discuss something of importance; and 99% of people here have given me that. Yea it's the internet; and yea it's not your problem. But it matters to me. There are a lot of intelligent members here who can and have offered me good advice. Then there are people like you who have the potential to help; yet say stupid shit like that; and for what? Does it make you feel better? Maybe being an anonymous ignorant prick helps fill up your quota for daily entertainment.
I'm all for your jokes, there just a time and a topic mate.
I've read everyone's comments and I'd like to say - thanks for your advice. I wouldn't of made this topic if I did not have a lack of intelligent people to talk to this about IRL. This is just not something I want to discuss with %99 of friends; and I guess the anonymity helps as well.
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What advice is there to give? How can I, a random person on the renegadeforum you know nothing about, change your attitude towards a fairly fundamental issue? I sure as hell won't change your mind.
So, who exactly are you thanking for their advice? The people who actually criticized what you did, or the fundies giving you a pat on the back, thinking you were morally upright when you were really just patronising your sister?
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Like I said, I thanked everyone for their advice. While appearances may be deceiving; I'm not so self consumed as to only acknowledge people who didn't criticize me. Upon reading everyone's opinions, I do realize that yea, the way I went about it was wrong.
If I am honestly seeking opinions, then anybody has the ability to change my mind (I'm already thinking of how I can apologize). - Yet anyone can not possibly know my true intentions, so I won't hold that against you.
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433887 is a reply to message #433779] |
Sat, 31 July 2010 02:24 |
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lol everyone who posted in this topic (especially dover) is an idiot. your sister is a skank like kelly bundy and you need to kick every older mans ass who tries to have sex with your teenage sister, older dudes are just bangin young chicks because theyre retarded and easy for the most part.
its not even valid to try and reverse the situation as younger man - older woman, since guys are gonna bang anything that goes in front of them anyways. younger girls are easily manipulated and you were entirely in the right to kick this guy out.
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433909 is a reply to message #433779] |
Sat, 31 July 2010 09:31 |
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If she were my sister, I probably would've just torn his head off and staked it outside her school as a gentle warning for others.
She can go out and meet guys when she's good and ready. Like, when she's 32 or something.
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| Re: Some IRL Drama just went down; your thoughts? [message #433910 is a reply to message #433909] |
Sat, 31 July 2010 09:54 |
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| nikki6ixx wrote on Sat, 31 July 2010 17:31 |
If she were my sister, I probably would've just torn his head off and staked it outside her school as a gentle warning for others.
She can go out and meet guys when she's good and ready. Like, when she's 32 or something.
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Is "32" a typo, or a joke? Either way, I lol'd.
I'm with Goztow on as far as "... informed close family that I was in a relationship with <xxx> ...", but unless he was breaking the law, or exceptionally rude/aggressive/drunk/stoned/ otherwise undesirable, I'd have taken a less direct route, probably asked my sister to step outside her room for a sec to talk.
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Sat, 31 July 2010 10:36 |
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I have a l5 year old sister who's a little slut. I have known a couple of over-18 guys who have given her way too much attention and they're very lucky I'm not a guy because I would have beaten the little pedophiles to a pulp. The ONLY reason a 20 year old is hanging out with a 16 year old is to get her to have sex with him and someone that young and naive is an easy target to get his dick wet. Period. He's not there because he finds her interesting. He finds her tits interesting.
I'm the bawss.
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